Thursday, June 2, 2011

Truth Be Told

Truth Be Told


Interview with Author Andrew Shaffer

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 11:26 PM PDT

Today on Truth Be Told we are featuring author of the non-fiction title Great Philosophers Who Failed At Love Andrew Shaffer. I had the pleasure of meeting Andrew during Romantic Times Booklover's Convention this year.

Hi Andrew! Thank you so much for joining us on Truth Be Told. I don't feature too many non-fiction books but your title, Great Philosophers Who Failed at Love, has caught my interest. To start off, why don't you tell us some fun facts about you in twitter style, 140 characters or less?

Appeared on FOX News. Worked in library as teenager. Former wedding DJ. Went to "Passion of the Christ" once on worst first date in history.

In your book, you say the idea for this title came to you during your honeymoon. Why did you decide to pursue the idea and actually write about failed love in philosophy?

I had created a line of "Friedrich Nietzsche Valentine's Day" cards for my greeting card company, Order of St. Nick (www.orderofstnick.com). The cards featured some of Nietzsche's most pessimistic quotes on romantic love, and I hooked up with an agent who worked with me closely to develop the idea into a book proposal. We sold it to HarperCollins the week I got married, and I ended up researching and writing it while on my honeymoon. My wife was very forgiving about the whole situation.

Out of all the philosophers you researched, which one was your favorite? Which one was the most surprising?

Friedrich Nietzsche will always occupy a special place in my heart. How can you not love a guy who was fond of saying things like, "Ah, women – they make the highs higher and the lows more frequent"? The most surprising philosopher I researched, though, was Simone de Beauvoir. For years, she was seen as riding her sometimes-boyfriend Sartre's coat-tails. It's only recently that scholars and historians have begun to believe that he was the one riding her intellectual coat-tails. Their story – romantic, tragic, perverse – is told in fascinating detail in Hazel Rowley's 2005 book, Tête à Tête (French for "head to head").

How much research went into writing this book? Did any specific philosophers take longer than the others?

There are 37 philosophers in Great Philosophers Who Failed at Love. I read one or more biographies for each 2-3 page profile (where biographies were available). I originally took some notes from Wikipedia, but the misinformation on that site – at least as it relates to the subjects I was researching – was very disconcerting.

I really enjoyed reading the "In Their Own Words" section at the end of each "chapter," which quote, if you can narrow it down, was your favorite?

I find Jean-Jacques Rousseau's confession on his flashing hobby painfully hilarious: "I haunted dark alleys and lonely spots where I could expose myself to women . . . . The more sensible pretended that they had seen nothing. Others started laughing." To admit you're some kind of sexual predator is one thing; to admit that women laugh at the site of your junk is something else entirely.

Tell us (if you can) a little bit about some of your upcoming projects. I'm especially interested in The Hunger Games and Philosophy.

I'm contributing an essay tentatively titled "Schadenfreude: The Joy of Watching Others Suffer" to The Hunger Games and Philosophy, which is part of the Blackwell Philosophy and Pop Culture Series. Philosophers from Plato to Kant to Schopenhauer have believed that schadenfreude – taking pleasure in another person's pain – is among the worst traits of human nature. In the essay, I draw parallels between the Hunger Games and the Roman Colosseum, and try to answer the question, Could the Hunger Games happen today?

Andrew, you don't only write, but you are also the creative director of Order of St. Nick, greeting cards for atheists and non-religious people. How did this project start up?

As far back as high school, I created my own Christmas cards and sent them to friends and family. In 2007, I posted some of them online...and, to my surprise, complete strangers bought them! The atheist Christmas cards were supposed to be a joke at first – the concept should be an oxymoron, but it kind of works. If 15% of the US population is non-religious, agnostic, or atheist, and 98% of Americans celebrate Christmas, there's a huge secular holiday market out there. I never wanted to be a poster boy for atheism, but I did get a perverse thrill when Stephen Colbert (with tongue planted in cheek) called my cards "un-American." It was the highest possible compliment, and the pinnacle of my career.

What kind of writing advice can you offer for aspiring authors of fiction and non-fiction?

My advice: Don't try to be someone you're not. I tried, in vain, to break into publishing with short stories for 10 years before finally had any success. I was trying to write serious, Raymond Carver-esque stuff. It was painful to write, and probably quite painful to read. I had pretty much given up on writing by the time my greeting cards took off. That's when an epiphany hit me: Instead of trying to write what I thought some editor at Tinhouse or The New Yorker wanted to read, why not play to my own strengths? Why couldn't my writing be as irreverent and humorous as my greeting cards?

You seem to be a huge promoter of social media. Do you have any advice for people looking to grow their popularity in social media?

Andrew Shaffer and I at the RT Faery Ball
Be yourself. And be patient. I started my first Twitter account (@andrewtshaffer) almost two years ago. It took a long time to A) find my own "voice," and B) find an audience that was receptive.

I did not forget about Evil Wylie. Evil Wylie seems to be your alter ego, if I was to ask Evil Wylie to leave us with one lasting thought, some words of wisdom, what would he say?


Evil Wylie is my villainous alter-ego. He says the things I would love to say, if only I had the balls. I wouldn't trust anything he says, especially anything under the guise of "words of wisdom."

Thank you Andrew for taking the time to stop by, I appreciate it and look forward to reading more from you in the near future.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Adding Thera-bands to Your Workout -WomanFrenzy.com

Adding Thera-bands to Your Workout -WomanFrenzy.com


Adding Thera-bands to Your Workout

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 01:09 AM PDT

If you your schedule is too tight to fit in the gym or, your budget does not have room for an expensive membership, you may need to find a way to workout at home. Working out at home can be fast and convenient. If you are worried that a home workout routine will not give you as optimized of a workout as a workout at a gym would, then grab some therabands. Studies have shown that working out using resistance training increases bone mass and strengthens and tones muscles. As long as the muscles are stabilized and engaged it doesn't matter if they are engaged by a big fancy weight machine or an inexpensive Theraband. The results you see will be similar!

Things One Should Know About Weight Loss Pills

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 12:54 AM PDT

Today the work culture has changed and it has directly impacted the life of people. The most common side effect is overweight or obesity which has become a cause of concern for people globally. Overweight is caused by improper diet plan and unhealthy living styles. Weight loss pills are helpful to fight against overweight.

What Will I Do To Heal The Pain Of This Break Up?

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 12:52 AM PDT

Healing after a breakup can be difficult in the best of situations. When you didn't see it coming at all or did not want the breakup at all it can be tough to find the right way to heal from the very beginning. That doesn't mean that healing is impossible. But, what does it take to heal after a breakup?

Tinnitus Best Threatment

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 12:49 AM PDT

To decide whether one has acquired noise-induced hearing loss, hearing exam is performed to eradicate cerumen impaction for tinnitus treatment. During analysis, problems could also be recognized by the doctor and make treatments or recommendation. The remedy important part is understanding patients probable cause and options for treatment.

Making Money With A Dating Affiliate Program

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 12:38 AM PDT

Affiliate marketing is a fantastic way for anyone to make money on the Internet. As an affiliate you will be able to refer products and services to customers and therefore get paid a commission to doing so. One of the best affiliate programs that you could consider joining would be those that refer people onto dating sites. If this is something that interests you, here are some tips on making money with a dating affiliate program.

New Santa Banta

New Santa Banta


Shahruk against Salman Khan

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 01:50 AM PDT

Shah Rukh Khan is trying hard to mend fences and please his long lost friend Salman as SRK was all praise for the `Dabangg` star`s upcoming film `Ready` and is optimistic about the film`s fate.

"I have seen two songs of `Ready`....they are good," Shah Rukh told reporters here. The two songs--`Character Dheela` and `Dhinka Chika` from the Salman-Asin starrer are already racing ahead on the music charts.

Though, Shah Rukh did not make it clear whether he would see the film but his children would. "My children are going to see the film day after tomorrow. I think it will be a very nice film," he said.

Recently, Salman had said if Shah Rukh had to apologise then instead of saying it on television (Karan Johar`s show (Koffee with Karan) he should have come home, to which Shah Rukh said, "I don't have anything to say."

In 2008, a star-studded birthday party of Katrina Kaif turned into a battle of the two super stars following which Salman had said, "SRK and I can never be friends" while Shah Rukh said, "Salman and I don`t talk which is absolutely right."

A Little Craft Space Inspiration

A Little Craft Space Inspiration


A Little Craft Space Inspiration

Posted: 01 Jun 2011 08:15 AM PDT

I hope all of you had a wonderful weekend and you're feeling refreshed and recharged!  We had a great weekend around here and then homeschool evaluations for my boys.  Well, I can't even begin to explain how homeschool evaluations get me all worked up every year.  It never fails to stress me out!  The boys did fabulous and now we get to take a little break before starting up again.  It's time to enjoy Summer!

Since my brain is a bit jumbled I thought I'd share a little craft room {or corner of the room…he he} inspiration with you.  These always make me happy, so I hope you enjoy them too!

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I've gone through my phase of "bigger is better" with my craft area, but now I'm all about cute and compact work spaces.  I love how this little desk sports lots of little extras to keep it all organized and looking great…check out the purse hook and the pen holder on the side.

You can put this desk anywhere and be able to create something beautiful without needing a whole room.  Oh, and what about this chair with the lovely fabric…I want one just like it!

What a splash of color! Just go vertical with your supplies using pegboard and spray paint.  {Spray paint rules…just sayin'!}  Then you just add the hooks and shelves you need without using up your precious desk top space.  This chair is pretty awesome, too…I have chair envy today!

If you haven't had you're fill of craft space beauty, just visit our craft space inspiration section for lots more!

What size space do you have for your craft or sewing area?  Do you store your supplies in a closet or have them right there and ready to use?  I'd love to hear about your little creative spaces!

~Kim


June issue out w/ Ron Trent, Kenny Bobien & Tevo Howard; DJ Mes Mix & this week's Chicago House Music Events

More Message to Japanese Viewers



EMI Japan posted the entire video of their most recent interview with the Libera boys. It is so nice to see how much the boys care about Japan and want everything to work out for the best there. Hearing them talk about Japan makes you realize how much they love it. Ralph expressed himself so well in describing how the earthquake and tsunami affected him. "Well, when I first heard about it, I was devasted. I mean, I couldn't believe it at first. I thought, 'This can't be happening. This is Japan. I love Japan.' But then it sort of started to sink in, and I couldn't really concentrate properly on what I was doing. And then I got home and saw it on TV, and I was just so sad." 

Kavana said some very nice things about the city of Sendai that got hit hard by the tsunami. "Some of us here have been to Sendai, and I'm sure we all think it's a lovely, beautiful place. The people there were so friendly. We enjoyed the bullet train as well, the high-speed... I think it's such a bad thing that such a devastating thing can happen to such a beautiful city. And I do hope that it rebuilds quickly, because we love Sendai."

The interview was very interesting, and there were some really funny moments (as can be expected when talking to the Libera boys for any length of time). :) Ralph is so funny talking about the "Song of Life" recording. "Well, I remember seeing a lot of funny stuff, I think...that was a crazy morning for me...but I had great fun recording it." When the interviewer asks them about their mothers, Ralph immediately responds, "I love my mum." to which all of the other boys agree. There is a lull and then Cassius smiles and says, "Yeah, well, that's all we've got to say. We just love them." :)

It is so funny that they all buy their own CD's! In answer to the lady's question about what their favorite thing about Japan was, Kavana answered that he loved how friendly the people were...and that the food was delicious. :) And it CRACKS ME UP how Ralph just kind of jumps in with "And the streets are sooo clean!" :D Cassius says that he loves the design and architecture of the buildings.

When asked about their hobbies, 12-year-old Kavana says he plays sports, "but some of the young ones here, they have to go for their very important exams." :) Barney says they have entrance exams and also SAT's next week. Maybe that's "Student Achievement Tests." ??? We take Achievement Tests in the US through 10th grade. Mini James says, "I'm a bit nervous."

I LOVE hearing them talk about the royal wedding! Ralph is so funny, applauding and saying "Well done, Will!" lol! Then they talk about how it was a world-wide event, and it was really exciting to be watching it with millions of other people. And then Ralph cracks us all up again with one of his little jump-ins, "There were some really cool hats." Kavana looks like he's about to explode trying not to laugh after Ralph says that. :)

It was interesting to hear them talking about the "Song of Life" video and how they took Ralph out early to do his outside parts and then back to film the studio stuff. And then they have a great little message for their Japanese fans about how much they can't wait to come back to Japan! I hope that the Japanese fans get a chance to go to the concerts there next April! Can't wait!


Because Fan de LoK requested it, my mom typed out the whole interview.

James: Hi. We are...

All: Libera.

Freddie: Thank you very much for your support.

Interviewer: Questions, yeah? So, how did you feel when you heard for the first time, and maybe you saw on the TV, this tragic earthquake and tsunami in Japan?

Ralph: Well, when I first heard about it, I was devasted. I mean, I couldn't believe it at first. I thought, "This can't be happening. This is Japan. I love Japan." But then it sort of started to sink in, and I couldn't really concentrate properly on what I was doing. And then I got home and saw it on TV, and I was just so sad. Terrible.

Interviewer: And, you know, the earthquake has hit the northern part of Japan. I remember you had a nice concert in Sendai, but now there is a lot of disaster there. So will you talk about your thoughts?

Kavana: Some of us here have been to Sendai, and I'm sure we all think it's a lovely, beautiful place. The people there were so friendly. We enjoyed the bullet train as well, the high-speed...

Ralph: It's a beautiful city.

Kavana: Very good. And we think that it's, me personally, I think it's such a bad thing that such a devastating thing can happen to such a beautiful city. And I do hope that it rebuilds quickly, because we love Sendai, I love Sendai. It's very beautiful.

Interviewer: Can you tell about the nice news about NHK asking to sing the main theme of the drama "Madonna Verde?"

Barney: Well, we were really pleased when we first found out, and that this brilliant drama was going to be shown all over Japan, and all of our songs.

Kavana: And it's great that we get to be known as the people who are singing it. I mean like, you sometimes remember specific TV theme tunes. And it's great to know that people will watch and listen to our music.

Ralph: Sounds great, as well, from what I've heard about it.

Cassius: And they'll just remember us, so it's really nice.

Interviewer: Can you tell us about a song or any interesting story during recording the song?

Ralph: Well, I remember seeing a lot of funny stuff, because I think that was a crazy morning for me. But I had great fun recording it, and I'm sure most of us here, oh, all of us here recorded it. I remember being just so relaxed and happy about the recording.

Kavana: It's great to sing your own harmony parts so confidently, and then it can all come together to create a beautiful piece of music.

Ralph: It was also quite weird hearing it through the head phones as well.

Interviewer: Good. And the beautiful voice and lyrics of "Song of Life" will give peace and courage to the listeners, right? So how do you want the song to reach people's feelings?

Ralph: Well, we want the people in Japan to feel like they're not alone, and that everyone in the world feels sad for them. And that we all support them.

Kavana: And after the devasting disasters, we think that it's great that our songs can bring happiness to all of Japan.

Interviewer: Good. The drama "Madonna Verde" is about a bond between a mother and child and how life is all connected. Can you tell us your feeling, you know, towards your mother?

Ralph: I love my mum.

Kavana: I'm sure we all love our parents.

Cassius:  Yeah, well, that's all we've got to say. We just love them.

(laughter)

Kavana: But it's great, because they care for us, and like we're doing all these things,

Ralph: They've done so much for us.

Kavana: And they're there, and they're supporting us.

Barney: And they're the ones who helped us get to the place where we are right now.

Interviewer: Good. And we understand that you plan to (go to) Japan next year for the tour, right? And is there any special feeling you want to convey to the listeners through your singing?

Kavana: Well, I guess that when we sing, we know that we want to make people happy, but especially here. We want to make them forget about all the disasters and just come, and we'll sing for you, and we'll make you happy and make it worthwhile.

Interviewer: Well, and what is your most interesting thing at the moment? Can you tell us about it?

Kavana: Well, I think the new release of our Libera Deluxe, which is, I think it's the Peace album with some videos. And it's great to know that you can have this special feature where you can watch us as well as listen, and that's really exciting for us. I mean we all buy, I'm sure we all buy our own CD's.

Ralph: I've seen the video.

Kavana: It's great to listen to our own music.

Cassius: And I just can't believe that we actually did it ourselves, cause it's put in different things, and we just did some stuff, and it made it into a massive...

Ralph: So what do you mean by the most interesting things?

Interviewer: Yeah, if it's OK, your private things. Private, right?

Background (Ben C. ?): A hobby.

Interviewer: Yeah, so anything interesting at the moment? You know, maybe when you're not singing?

Ralph: Well, I'm revising for exams at the moment, so I don't really have that much interesting stuff going on, but I'm sure they all have.

Kavana: Well, I'm sure, well most of us have hobbies. I mean, I do sport, quite likely. But some of the young ones here, they have to go for their very important exams.

Barney: Common entrance, and also we've got SAT's.

Mini James: SAT's next week. Bit nervous.

Cassius: Well, that's coming next year for me, so...

Kavana: So, it's all school work really.

Interviewer: OK. So, if you go back to Japan, what do you like about Japan? Sorry. Why do you like Japan? All of you've gone to Japan, right?

Kavana: Well, I think that the people are so friendly to us, and it's great to have such a friendly environment. Also the food is delicious. I mean I personally love Japanese food.

Ralph: And the streets are so clean!

Kavana: They're tidy. And it's great to see how much respect the Japanese people have for us.

Cassius: I love the design of the buildings.

Ralph: That's amazing.

Mini James: Yes.

Ralph: I remember Tokyo Tower when I went up there. That...wow. That's all I can say. Wow.

Cassius: Orange and white really go together.

Interviewer: Well, we understand there was a big, royal wedding in April. Yeah? And this is big news for you. So what do you think about that?

Ralph: What up, Will!

Kavana: Yes, I mean it's great how we get to see, I mean we see so many cultures as well, but it's great to know that we can relate to Britain. And it's good to see a royal wedding in our lifetime, because I'm sure generations to come, some people might not see it.

Ralph: And it's a massive, royal event. I'm so happy to have lived through it.

Barney: And it's amazing that millions and millions of people were watching it, and to know that you were one of them cheering them on.

Cassius: Even worldwide.

Ralph: There were some really cool hats there.

Cassius: Yeah, with the Union Jack.

Interviewer: Good. Well, you made a very beautiful music video of "Song of Life."  So what is it like shooting? How do you shoot? In the studio or outside?

Ralph: Well, I arrived early, and we went out to the Common where they filmed some shots of me singing the thing. And then we went back down to the studio. And then everyone started to arrive, and we filmed the really cool bits there. So most of the time we film music videos inside, but sometimes we go outside.

Kavana: But it's great how we get to have this new opportunity. I mean not many people get to be in a music video, and it's great cause it's our own music video. And it's good cause we get loads of support from our friends and our family.

Interviewer: Good. And finally, they need a message to your fans in Japan.

Kavana: Hello. I'm Kavana. I've missed Japan, and I can't wait to be there.

Mini James: Hello. I'm James. I heard we're coming to Japan again soon, and I'm really excited to come and see everyone again.

Barney: Hello. I'm Barney. I've never been to Japan before, so I'm really excited.

Freddie: Hello. I'm Freddie, and I hope to be singing for you soon.

Ralph: Hello. I'm Ralph. I really, really, really am looking forward to going to Japan again. And I have some good memories from there.

Cassius: Hello. I'm Cassius. Last time in Japan was amazing, so this time it's going to be the same.

Kavana: We just finished filming for our new song "Song of Life." It was a great experience, and the music video is really good. So we hope you enjoy it.

All: See you soon!

Truth Be Told

Truth Be Told


LOVETT: Highway Collection Album Review

Posted: 31 May 2011 10:05 PM PDT

Artist: LOVETT
Album: Highway Collection
Release Date: March 15, 2011
Label: Lover's Label
Genre: Rock
Source: For Review

LOVETT's newest album has a total raw feel that reminds me of the good old days with Johnny Cash and Bob Dylan. Their music has a natural vibe; you can sense the love of music through each song. This album doesn't sound overly edited it feels as if I'm watching it live.

"Two Lovers" one of the songs off the album can completely summarize their music style. When Ben sings the lyrics to this song he has a raspy edge to his voice that gives off so much emotion. It's definitely more of a heartfelt song than a rock-out tune.

"Heartattack" is another great song on this album. It starts off quick and steady with a sort of punkish vibe. The vocals move just as quickly as the music and it's the kind of song you want to sing along too in a packed downtown music club.

Ben Lovett's strong musical background is showcased in his newest album. Each song has a bit of a unique sound but they all go together very well. Lovett has a distinct sound; this is the type of band you recognize instantly because their sound is so unique.

It feels as if this album takes me on a short musical history lesson. The song "All the Time" reminds me of a good nineties rock song with higher pitched vocals and a quick paced guitar beat that almost comes across as acoustic.

Overall, I loved this album. Five lanterns to Lovett's latest release.